Tue 24 Aug 2010
Personal observations and learning from Leadership practices
Posted by anil under Academic, Leadership, MBA
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Highlighted below are some of the leadership practices and questions on which I reflected upon at the end of the course.
-self-awareness (centering, TR)
When I started working on self-awareness, I had absolute lack of knowledge about my own inner self and all my actions were driven by utter disregard for other’s emotions and in conflict with my own ideal self. But as I focused and started introspecting more on my thoughts, feelings and actions, I started getting a grip on the practice. Instead of just being satisfied with the practice, I started applying them to various contexts and started realizing my strengths, weaknesses, and negative predispositions, emotions of anger, envy, jealousy pride and arrogance. I could relate my social acquaintances with people sharing similar viewpoints, found reasoning for my disappointments, disillusions and short-term moody behaviors. I realized how empathy towards others emotions, understanding and appreciating other cultures, values and beliefs brings about joy and happiness in others. Professional conduct with honesty, integrity and commitment helped me strengthen my value system and I had occasions when I lost my temper but thanks to the practice, I was quickly able to regain my control and act in an appropriate way.
-listening
Paying undivided attention and respecting others views, soliciting feedback, open communication and being receptive to new ideas and opinions had really changed my relationship with others. People who feared to talk freely now have vibrant conversations with me. I am able to treat others with due respect and this had instilled confidence, morale and brought in high performance from my staff. Having shown keen interest in discussions, I was able to address many hostile behaviors and resolve contentions.
-embodied presence (centering, blending)
As with self-awareness, I was ignorant about embodied presence and I realized the detrimental consequences of my moody behaviors. I was able to neutralize my fixations on judgments and perceptions of others, be present in the moment, analyze contexts and choices and engage in actions that have greater meaning and purpose.
-blending
Blending was a unique exercise which I employed effectively while negotiating with clients. People have their own unique personalities, behave differently, have their own egos and conflicting opinions, but directing them to a common ground where mutual interests are served; most differences in opinion can be worked out. The blending practice was instrumental in our merger talks with a competitor.
-assessment of progress on personal coaching objective
I see myself as being challenged take on new responsibilities in a diverse cultural environment. I will find effective use of all the knowledge and experience I had gained so far in this course. Now having developed emotional intelligence, I feel comfortable in connecting with others and able to manage people, culture, strategy and value networks. Though not globally challenged, my new leadership role will definitely alter my leadership style, help me probe, sense and act in complex situations, seize opportunities and explore disruptive innovation as means to sustain competition.
With exposure to such immense learning, I have really broadened my scope of learning and fell confident with my leadership competencies – personal and social and ready to take on new challenges of the real world.
-description of the work and/or life context for the next several years
a)-the uncertainty of the context in which you will be operating (using Snowden’s four distinctions; more than one may be applicable);
The consulting market place is constantly changing and highly unpredictable. Any one involved in this business needs to adapt in an agile way and rapidly jump into opportunities that will lead to business growth. I will find tremendous use of Snowden’s Cynefin framework to act in such complex contexts. I’ve been though disorderly and chaotic situations before but had acted with gut feeling and intuition. Having grasped all this knowledge now I feel more empowered to address uncertainty with positive outcomes.
b)-the EI leadership styles you anticipate will be most useful, whether they are your preferred styles or not, and, if not, how do you intend to prepare yourself to use your less favored styles;
I will not be engaging in any preferred leadership style, but based on the situation I’ll apply the appropriate one which will deliver positive results. I’ve applied the commanding style during the recent economic crisis taking some tough decisions, but now having merged, I would prefer a mix of visionary, affiliative, coaching and democratic styles.
c)-the opportunity for you to lead innovation in that context and innovation “probes” you might consider useful;
Being in IT consulting, I find great use of disruptive innovation. With the recent regulatory mandate on financial reporting in XBRL format, our company had developed low cost software products for small to medium business to conform to this new regulation. We probed the markets, understood competition, and realized the potential opportunities before we went ahead with R & D investment in the product.
d)-how you expect to address the development needs of your employees and/or teams (ex., Blanchard, Vision (grounded in strategic assessment and intrinsic motivation), culture (key values and addressing appropriate and inappropriate behaviors, as in our class discussion of Gerstner’s assessments and actions)
As a key executive, I will discourage dysfunctional behaviors persistent in the new organization. This will take time and I’ll have to meet with people, gather feedback and evaluate the organizational culture, the readiness of people to adopt to change etc. before I transform processes, culture and behaviors. In order to motivate people, I’ll have to understand what really inspires and encourages them to do a great job and accordingly will formulate strategies and introduce reward systems. I will have to calibrate my leadership style according to response from people. Emotional skills combined with left brain thinking will be helpful in instilling right motivation.
e)-Your emotional state (transitory, related to a specific event) or mood (a persistent background emotional state not necessarily identifiably related to a specific event) at the time you completed the first self-assessment and when you completed this revised self-assessment; what dispositions to action and constraints on action were created by those emotions or moods; your assessment as to whether those emotions/moods were helpful in your completion of the assessment; if so, why and if not, why not and what could you have done to approach the assignment with a more productive emotional state or mood.
Before I started the course, my emotions were momentary, highly unreliable and had loss of faith and trust from some employees. But with the EI practice and gradual improvement in leadership skills, I have become easily accessible to everyone, others treat me with respect, I regained lost faith and trust and I feel more confident to take on new challenges.
I would suggest role playing in leadership and excerpts of real world application of EI practices will definitely help students complete the learning loop. This will greatly provide them a complete understanding of the leadership competencies and the relevance of emotional intelligence for primal leadership.

